Obviously, society doesn’t talk openly about the reasons why ladies use sex toys or discuss in detail how female sexuality develops.
It develops in part by rubbing or by inserting the desired sex toy to see how it feels to f*ck. It happens in most cases when you’re a virgin, or sometimes when you are horny, alone and desperate to figure out what will turn you on
A survey has shown that 1 in 20 women have used a vibrator or any sex toy before. Women who have used a vibrator report better arousal, desire, and orgasm than those who haven’t.
If you’re a woman who has indulged in a sex toy, you’ll know that it can mould not only the masturbation experience but also helps you to achieve stronger and more powerful orgasms.
If you’re single, sex toys provide a great opportunity to discover your body and what you prefer in the bedroom. That way, the next time you have a sexual encounter, you’ll feel confident telling your partner how to please you.
The health benefits of sex toys
1. A Fun Cure for Vaginismus
Vaginismus is a condition involving a muscle spasm in the pelvic floor muscles. It can make it painful, difficult, or impossible to have sexual intercourse, to undergo a gynaecological examination, and to insert a tampon.
It’s a condition that brings women pain when something is inserted into the vagina, due to involuntary muscle spasms.
But studies have found that using a vibrator helps to alleviate some of the discomfort experienced by creating a sedative effect for the pelvic floor muscles.
In this way, you’re feeling physically more comfortable and alert for further penetrations.
2. Sexual Healing for Post-Child Birth
Using a vibrator after childbirth not only gives you a little pleasurable boost, but also helps in one’s recovery. Using a sex toy helps to increase blood flow in the pelvic region, thus speeding up the healing process
3. Achieving Orgasm
For many, female orgasms are rather elusive, and not everyone experiences them, but it’s worth it to experiment and find out how it feels. Achieving orgasm during sex is extremely difficult or almost impossible.
This is also because a majority of women find themselves climaxing with clitoral stimulation as opposed to penetration. Using a vibrator would highly increase the likelihood of achieving orgasm.
4. Stress and Pain Relief from menstrual cramps
Orgasms relieve menstrual cramps and shorten your period.
When you orgasm, endorphins (happy hormones) are released in the brain, which leaves you feeling less stress. But these hormones don’t just relieve stress! They also reduce the perception of pain.
The reason why health professionals recommend masturbation. Doing so will not only relieve those painful cramps, but will also aid in your period ending sooner. This is because, when a woman orgasms the muscles contract and expand, expelling blood.
In conclusion, everyone is allowed to experience what gives him/her pleasure. You’re allowed to enjoy things that make you feel good, and you don’t even have to discuss it with anyone else if you don’t want to.